[Tango-L] cabaceo/rejection

[dierdre black]

At the expense of sounding arrogant/snobby.........I have found if I am more discriminating and patient in choosing whom I will accept as my tango partners(ignoring some cabaceos by looking under the table for some lint, whatever), I have more than enough dances; avoid being a wallflower and in addition, am not injured or bored, at the end of it all.  Followers don't have to be ridiculously rude, unless the guy is dense and harassing them.......better to flit off to the bathroom, out "for a smoke", or something, to allow a win-win situation, for all. 

d black/BA(where the ex prz died, today!!!!)