[Tango-L] connection

[Michael]

Sherrie:
Based on the unpleasantness you described, here's the $64 question. Will 
women dance with the SAME men again? I'll bet the answer is yes because for 
some "Bad tango is better than NO tango." When women realize their power in 
saying "No, it's not fun" by declining an invitation, maybe the leaders will 
get the message.

Michael
I danced Argentine Tango --with the Argentines
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Sent: Sunday, November 14, 2010 2:30 PM
Subject: [Tango-L] connection


>
> I like that thought, the man follows after he leads.....
>
> If he is good that is what he does....many men lead a step and then do not 
> wait for the follow to execute it and finish it before he is leading her 
> out of it into the next step...this often results in the follow feeling 
> pushed...the result is that the dance stops being a dialogue and is only 
> an exercise...I look at the faces of follows dancing with leads like this 
> and they never have a pleasant, enjoying look...they always look somber 
> and very focused on what is coming next.  I always fear that I will be 
> tripped up because before I have landed and changed my weight...I am being 
> pushed into the next step...Sherrie
>
>
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