[Tango-L] foot in mouth disease

[Tango For Her]

I receive insulting posts.

Mario receives insulting posts.

I see posts, all the time, that are insulting AND HAVE
NO PLACE ON THIS LIST!

So, Charles, and others who want to rank on Mario,
re-read Charles' post and look in the mirror.  Mario
made a mistake.  But, Mario doesn't deserve emails
like Charles' email when it is other people who are
provoking!

Continuously throw rocks at a dog and when the dog
finally snaps back at you, put him to sleep.  Nice! 
Real nice!

Take your foot out of your own mouth!  

I get privately praised by people all the time for
being nice and taking your bull.  People want
constructive posts and applaud me (and, I am sure,
others) for dealing with all of the provoking,
insulting posts.  

So, sorry if I can't sit back and watch YOU punch and
belittle Mario.  Give me a break!  

Don't throw rocks if you live in a glass house. 

Charles, take your own advise.  Stop sending posts
that belittle others.  Do what I do, often.  I'll
write the post and email it to myself.  I did that,
yesterday, with an email that I was going to broadcast
back to Stephen.  I sent it to myself.  Why?  Because
if I sent it to all of you, I would be doing what you
do.  Bringing down the level of quality on Tango-L.  

Don't you get it?  Everytime you publicly scold
someone, you make yourself look like, well, you have
your blinders on, anyway.  So, you won't understand.  

Man!  I CANNOT believe that YOU would be telling the
whole world that Mario needs to watch what he writes! 
YOU!

You write some great posts.  Why in the world are you
"putting other people in their place" all the time? 
You don't carry any weight, in THAT area, with us! 
You are NOT the worst offender.  But, YOU telling
others not to be like Mario is pathetic.

FURTHERMORE:

Charles said:

... too often the most vehement, intense and
argumentative are the ones by new dancers and
beginners whose rhetoric far outweighs their actual
experience.   Even worse, they may be, and often are,
wrong.   Many advanced and sophisticated dancers read
this list but don't post, in part because of these
kinds of responses. 

PLEASE, allow me to inform you.  People write to me,
privately.  When I ask why they don't post to the
group, they say that they don't want to be bullied and
scolded by, well, for example, you!  Are you really
trying to tell us that people don't post because of
Mario?  Look in the mirror!  Your last email should be
retracted!

Mario is worth a lot more to this group than either
you or me!!!  Mario is a true leader!  



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