[Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

[steve pastor]

Keith: 
  If you seriously wish to engage in discussions with people in this
  forum, you might want to avoid replies such as this one, which you 
  posted recently.
   
  "Of course, Jeff, I'm sure the reason couldn't possibly be your poor leading.
Personally, I've never had a woman ... "automatically resolve into an ocho".
If you want something different, Jeff, lead something different. And if you
can't - don't blame the woman. 

Keith, HK"

  


Keith <keith at tangohk.com> wrote:
  Can we be a little bit more specific here. Steve, if the girl can walk and
do Ochos and Giros, just what are you leading that they don't know what to 
do? Especially after a couple of attempts. 

Keith, HK

On Sat Oct 13 5:28 , steve pastor sent:

> 
> "Why aren't they becoming more skilled?" Another answer to this is that
> many women become visibly upset if you lead something and they don't
> know what to do. After a try or two, it's best to leave it alone.
> And, you know, mostly, the women don't ask for input, or even want to 
> discuss things after they've had lessons or found an adequate number
> of partners they feel comfortable with. If something doesn't work, it is
> surely the fact that the man didn't lead it well. Right?
> But then, maybe that is because we don't have men who have been doing
> this for decades. 
> If you want to learn, you take lessons from a "teacher". Right?
> 


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