[Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

[Keith]

Can we be a little bit more specific here. Steve, if the girl can walk and
do Ochos and Giros, just what are you leading that they don't know what to 
do? Especially after a couple of attempts. 

Keith, HK

On Sat Oct 13  5:28 , steve pastor  sent:

>   
>  "Why aren't they becoming more skilled?" Another answer to this is that
>  many women become visibly upset if you lead something and they don't
>  know what to do. After a try or two, it's best to leave it alone.
>  And, you know, mostly, the women don't ask for input, or even want to 
>  discuss things after they've had lessons or found an adequate number
>  of partners they feel comfortable with. If something doesn't work, it is
>  surely the fact that the man didn't lead it well. Right?
>  But then, maybe that is because we don't have men who have been doing
>  this for decades. 
>  If you want to learn, you take lessons from a "teacher". Right?
>