[Tango-L] Just say NO: (the fear of close embrace)

[Tony Rathburn]

it's really very simple... two words...

thank you...

and, walk back to your table... 

if more women would do that... less guys would teach on the floor...

tony
 
----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Lois Donnay" <donnay at donnay.net>
Sent: Friday, September 17, 2010 1:32 PM
Subject: Re: [Tango-L] the fear of close embrace


This reminds me of the time I (as the milonga organizer) had to tell a man 
to stop teaching on the floor.   He was respectful to me and said "No 
problem - it stops right now"  That was nice. (Other times men have blamed
me and never returned to the milonga.)
>
Then he went right over to my boyfriend and said "Who was that b____ who 
complained about me giving her some tips? Because I'm never going to dance 
with that b___ again!"

The point is - women would love to stand up for themselves and tell men to 
stop acting like such cads.  How should they do that without having bad 
manners themselves??

Loisa Donnay 

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