[Tango-L] the fear of close embrace

[Lois Donnay]

This reminds me of the time I (as the milonga organizer) had to tell a man 
to stop teaching on the floor.   He was respectful to me and said "No 
problem - it stops right now"  That was nice. (Other times men have blamed 
me and never returned to the milonga.)

Then he went right over to my boyfriend and said "Who was that b____ who 
complained about me giving her some tips? Because I'm never going to dance 
with that b___ again!"

The point is - women would love to stand up for themselves and tell men to 
stop acting like such cads.  How should they do that without having bad 
manners themselves??

Loisa Donnay


Sergey wrote:  > And most ladies (at least 20 cm shorter than me) didn't 
have a problem at
> all with my hat.
>
Alexis wrote:
Pet peeve: "teaching/lecturing" at a milonga, in the middle
of the ronda. I sometimes really can't understand why the unfortunate
(usually female) victim doesn't kick the offender where it hurts.