[Tango-L] Cabeceo & the "no"

[Jack Dylan]

----- Original Message ----
> From: Michael tangomaniac at cavtel.net
 
> Technically, the woman never says "no" with cabeceo. > 

Correct - and that's the beauty of the cabeceo. 

With verbal invitations and rejections, the ladies will often reap 
what they sow. If a lady verbally rejects a man because 'he's not 
good enough' there's a very good chance that, when he is good 
enough, he'll remember those rejections and won't ask her again. 

There's a girl in my community that I've always wanted to dance 
with but she showed no interest and never looked my way so I 
couldn't give her my walking cabeceo. Friends said I was stupid 
not to ask her, but that's just me. Then, one day, she caught my 
eye and smiled. BINGO! That's all it takes.

Jack