[Tango-L] Invitation and refusal

[Gary]

On 09/06/2009, at 3:23 AM, Nussbaum, Martin wrote:

> If a woman turns
> down the invite, whether verbal or cabaceo, in a definitvely cold
> manner, such as slowly shaking her head no, why would you ever want to
> ask that woman again ? Let her dance with Gary Barn.

But that was not what I was talking about.  There were people here  
saying that if a woman says no (for any reason, in any way), then  
they blacklist her.

Bizarre.