[Tango-L] Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

[Trini y Sean (PATangoS)]

--- On Sat, 6/6/09, HBBOOGIE1 at aol.com <HBBOOGIE1 at aol.com> wrote:

> Another problem I've witnessed is a man approaching a group of ladies,  
> extending his hand directly in front of the lady he's asking to dance with and getting turned down so he simply moves to the next in line
> and asks her to dance? All of the ladies know that she wasn't his first
> choice and how does that make her feel? He just didn't want to clomp clomp clomp back across the  room empty handed.  


That doesn't bother me.  I'm not about to begrudge someone's friendship with someone else or someone else's skill level.  Occasionally, I'll joke about it with the guy.

When I'm the person that turns the guy down (excusing myself as needing a rest or something), and he moves to someone else that I'm sitting with (usually a friend), it doesn't seem to bother the other woman at all.

Trini de Pittsburgh