[Tango-L] Is it Balls, or just a Heel?

[Alexis Cousein]

johnofbristol at tiscali.co.uk wrote:
> I have been dancing since 1961 and one of the first lessons I had to 
> learn was: if someone turns you down for a dance, for any reason or 
> none, don't EVER ask her again. The rejection will only be crueller 
> next time.
> 
And, of course, protecting you from bruises to your ego is something
of paramount importance which trumps all other considerations?

No pain, no gain.