[Tango-L] Robot dancing

[NANCY]

Although I have already replied to this thread I thought more about why I like the chat time between songs within a tanda.  I also like the eye contact.  Argentine men have a way of looking deeply into one's eyes - whether it is passing on the street, across a cup of coffee, or doing a simple business negotiation.  It may or may not be sexual, but it is certainly intimate.  And when one has just danced a tango and there are more coming, it deepens the connection and the feeling of partnership and sharing of a moment; when I, as a follower, feel that I am not just 'someone' that he is dancing with, but THE SOMEONE he wants to be dancing with.  I feel cherished.  I feel cared for.  I am trusting.  I give myself to him for another three minutes.

The tango doesn't start with the music.  It starts with the look of the cabeceo, the greeting kiss and  then the embrace.  

Nancy