[Tango-L] Labor Day Festival: a complaint

robin tara robinctara at gmail.com
Tue Sep 2 14:36:10 EDT 2008


Yes, Huck, I'm sure that's true. It's also true that men need to speak
up when women are being overly agressive. I am pretty sure that the
guy massaging my neck didn't feel like dancing at that moment, but he
didn't have the "cohones" to say so.

Robin

On 9/2/08, Huck Kennedy <tempehuck at gmail.com> wrote:
> On Tue, Sep 2, 2008 at 10:57 AM, Cherie <MACFroggy at aol.com> wrote:
>  >
>  > I remember when I lived and danced in Los Angeles, one Argentine man there
>  > told me he used to hide out in the bathroom to get away from the aggressive
>  > women. And this was years and years ago.
>  > I can only imagine how much worse it is today.
>
>
>      In fairness to women, I've seen men behave just as poorly here in
>  Phoenix when the ratio is such that there are way more men than women
>  (which happens from time to time here).  The same nonsense, guys who
>  are already dancing picking off women before they even leave the
>  floor, instead of letting somebody else have a turn.  You pretty much
>  have to be a totally aggresive jerk to get a dance, hovering around
>  the women like a seedy horndog waiting to pounce, something which I
>  for one refuse to do.
>
>
>  Huck
>
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