[Tango-L] ..where did the balance go?

[Crrtango@aol.com]

Tangopeer wrote:

<<<<<So, if she ever uses your left hand to keep herself
balanced, make your left arm go, more or less, limp.
Take that crutch away from her.

If she leans on your right shoulder or grabs at your
back with her left hand, make up an excuse, tell her
you have a bad shoulder.  Yes, the more appropriate
advise might be to not dance with her.  But, if you
are going to dance with her, take that crutch away
from her.>>>>>

Gee, such a gentleman.   Followers love to be corrected and made to feel 
uncomfortable, especially in the middle of the dance floor.   If you are really a 
better dancer (and that might be questionable here) your job is to make her 
feel like she just had a beautiful dance, not to belittle her and remind her of 
your "superior" skills. 
   Have you danced tango very long? Your attitude seems to say no.

Charles


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