[Tango-L] Ecstasis and Control

[Floyd Baker]

You were very clear Mario...  



On Fri, 28 Mar 2008 08:35:08 -0700 (PDT), you wrote:

>>Nobody should ever be under any compulsion to do something that he or
>>she doesn't want to do. It sounds a little creepy to be restricted and
>>instructed that I have no will, although I wasn't there, so I don't
>>really know what that experience felt like.
>
>  Well, I guess that my original post didn't explain the setting enough.
>  The woman was a friend who had never danced tango. We were listening
>  to non-tango ballads but danceable as a slow tango. I offered to give her
>  an experience of the dance. She began moving side to side as many
>  first time tango dancers do. I tried to show that it was not salsa that
>  we were dancing. That it was a couple dance that needed a follower
>  and that it was both intimate and formal in an elegant way.
>  ..the comment about 'no will of your own' was half in humor..
>  She seemed to find it interesting..  Thanks for the last line where
>  you give the experience the benefit of the doubt, because you weren't there.
>   
>   I have alread decided (thanks to some lower back muscles)
>   that In the future,
>   not to dance tango with women who either haven't mastered their own
>   balance or who haven't danced tango before.
>   
>
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