[Tango-L] heel / Toe

[Dubravko Kakarigi]

I was waiting and waiting for this subject to go away, but it wouldn't. So, I've got to say my piece. 
 
It'salmost as if those who are preoccupied with this so-called "toe/heel"dilemma really do not wish to dance but only to make that perfect step.Too many rules, folks!
 
Whenever I hear "you should always dosuch and such" and a step or a part of a step or a foot position istalked about I cringe. The only "always" I can stand is "always let themusic, connection with your partner, and your heart guide you." I knowthis sounds so esoteric but is very real and you can't get it byimitating anyone, teacher or dancer alike. So, do not worry about is itthe toe or is it the heel first. For the time being do whatever isnatural or easier, but never ever loose the music and the partnerconnection. With time you will find out what works best for you andnurture it and polish it. 

Sure, there are reasons why in someinstances you will step toe first, or heel first, or with the fullsurface of your foot, for that matter. But, the best is if you discoverthose for yourself. Experiment, practice and you will find them in duetime if you look for them.
 
Someone posted a link to tangoandchaos.org- great site. One of the dancers discussed there is Tete. Some of hissteps are really terrible, in my mind, if you focus on the "toe/heel"first thing (and many other things, as a matter of fact, like posture,embrace and all), but his dancing is superb. Why? He really dances themusical phrases and knows at any time exactly where his partner is andmakes her movements almost inevitable and easy. He dances candenciasand pausas like no one else I know.

To be sure, not every woman likes to dance with him -- so I was told by some notable milongueras and given the reasons. So what?

So,I suggest - music, your heart, and your partner first! Everything elsewill follow. No partner will refuse to dance with you because you gotoe/heel first, but those who like to dance to the music will not dancewith you if you do not (or at least I hope they won't so that you canlearn and focus on the right thing). The choice is yours.

Boy, I did get carried away with this. I hope the list-gods will let it through.

...dubravko
  
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