[Tango-L] Krasimir vs anticipation...

[Jay Rabe]

I thought this was so great I thought it needed to be emphasized.

Anna wrote (paraphrased):

 Followers feel the confidence that the gentle, generous, experienced leader conveys to her.
The most gentle of leaders make the follower relax. 

The core of anticipation: a follower that tries to meet the expectation of the leader. 

Followers are very sensitive to the feelings conveyed. A follower can sense your impatience, your
horror of her anticipation. 
A sensitive follower will sense you questioning her talent. And the result will be worse. How can you expect a follower to relax when she has sensed she does not have the leaders' confidence and she cannot count on his gentle generosity? 
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Excellent, Anna. Thank you for the clarity.



          J
      TangoMoments.com




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