[Tango-L] Strong Lead - resistance effect

[Krasimir Stoyanov]

----- Original Message ----- 
From: "Chris, UK" <tl2 at chrisjj.com>
> Krasimir proposed:
>
>> it may feel like resistance, but it's mainly inertial
>
> It cannot be mainly inertial, because that make the result very asymmetric
> w.r.t. to motion towards her v. motion away. And that's not what we feel.

If you have a physical body not moving, and apply a force to make it move, 
the force it is giving you back (like resisting movement), is inertial - it 
is the same thing as when you try to stop a moving body.

>
>> , and this helps keeping the good connection necessary.
>
> What does that is her active embracing - the staying put relative to me.
> She's maintaining the homeostasis.

What is active embracing - first time I hear such a thing?