[Tango-L] Red Rover

[astrid]

a few more tricks, Fan:
make friends with some of the dancers in classes and practicas at the same
place where your milonga is. Greet everyone you know when you walk in at
night, hang out at the bar counter occasionally, and drop the message here
and there with men you know that you would like to dance with them "later".
If the man is macho enough to feel "put upon" if you ask him to dance
directly, this gives them a little freedom to choose the right moment, the
songs they like, and space for their big touchy ego... If then they still do
not come sooner or later and only dance with all those others on their
waiting list, it means, they really don't like you.
However a word of warning with Argentine men: some of them get downright
malicious and snotty if you ask them and will refuse on purpose just to make
a point of the fact that they are the only ones who have the Godgiven
right.., blablabla... Staring them down with a sexy smirk around the corners
of the eyes and the mouth often works, though... Plus a low neckline, nice
legs in high heels placed strategically... you know where men's brains are
located, right?

Astrid