[Tango-L] women leading???

[Derik Rawson]

Dear Jennifer:

If your boyfriend danced with another man because the
women were not accepting his offers to dance, then it
would not be cool for him to be substituting men for
women just to get dance.  It is only cool if he dances
mostly with women, and with men on occasion. That is
my point.

I would be glad to wash the dishes, scrub the floor,
vacuum, and cook, clean the toilet, because that is
part of practicing a good male-female relationship.
You can also lead me if you like.  No problem.  All I
ask is that you work on the male-female relationship.
If you promise to dance with girls only on occasion,
fine, no problem.  Spice is nice.

PS-  By the way, I had a job washing dishes in
college, so I like to wash dishes for my girlfriends.

Derik
d.rawson at rawsonweb.com


--- Jennifer Park <jhapark at pennswoods.net> wrote:

> Consider the perspective/assumption of your
> question, assuming she needs 
> improvement.  Perhaps it's just fine.  Maybe you are
> asking the wrong 
> question.
> 
> When my boyfriend danced with another man, I thought
> it was really cool. 
> Definitely didn't hurt anything.  Kind of a plus,
> really.
> 
> Derik, if I promised not to dance with any girls
> during the next milonga, 
> would you come to my house and wash my dishes, scrub
> the floor, vacuum, and 
> cook, clean the toilet...  It would really help me
> get along with you better 
> :)
> 
> Jen
> ----- Original Message ----- 
> From: "Derik Rawson" <rawsonweb at yahoo.com>
> To: "andrea" <ako31 at nyc.rr.com>;
> <d.rawson at rawsonweb.com>
> Cc: "Jennifer Park" <jhapark at pennswoods.net>;
> <tango-l at mit.edu>
> Sent: Monday, May 29, 2006 11:51 PM
> Subject: Re: [Tango-L] women leading???
> 
> 
> > Dear Andrea:
> >
> > Tell me how dancing with women improves your
> > relationship with men?
> >
> > Derik
> > d.rawson at rawsonweb.com
> >
> >
> > --- andrea <ako31 at nyc.rr.com> wrote:
> >
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >> On May 28, 2006, at 5:38 PM, Derik Rawson wrote:
> >>
> >> > Dear Andrea and Jen:
> >> >
> >> > Let's not be oversensitive here....lol.
> >> >
> >> > The same code rule applies to men as well as
> >> women.
> >> > How can you possibility practice and develop a
> >> solid
> >> > relationship with another sex unless you dance
> >> with
> >> > that sex a lot?  Women need to attract the men.
> >> If
> >> > they cannot do that, then it should not be the
> >> men's
> >> > problem, nor other women's problem.
> >> >
> >> > Derik
> >>
> >> guess i have to repeat myself:
> >>
> >> seems like a whole lot of men have a whole lotta
> >> opinions about what
> >> we women SHOULD do.
> >> sorry DERIK, we women will do as we please...
> >>
> >> in order to please OURSELVES.
> >>
> >> and be glad ur in houston because in nyc u would
> be
> >> tarred and
> >> feathered for stuff like u wrote above...the
> 'lol'
> >> does not excuse ur
> >> accusing women of 'oversensitivity'-a transparent
> >> attempt to
> >> discredit a very valid observation.
> >>
> >> btw- i  am very sensitive...and i plan to stay
> that
> >> way!
> >>
> >> andrea
> >>
> >>
> >
> >
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