[Tango-L] What Guys Want

[Trini y Sean (PATangoS)]

--- chris wrote:

>The feeling the guy gives the girl is by 
>definition tango reality, not at all illusion. 

>Don't expect many protests, Sean.

>Chris

Sean Here.

You just don't get it Chris. Tango is a two way 
street. It is not enough for the man to give the 
woman "the feeling". The woman has to return the 
favor. Those women who can do this are sought after 
by the men, and never have to chase guys down the 
corridor. You have probably never danced with a woman 
like this Chris, as they tend to be even pickier 
about men than I am about the women I dance with.

For beginning men, it is enough for a woman to be 
there. For intermediate men, it is enough if the 
woman can more or less follow his routine as he works 
through his repertoire of steps. But to reach the 
murky depths and dizzy heights of tango, the woman 
has to be as active as the man in creating the dance. 
She has as much responsibility to him as he has to 
her.

Some women just want to be carried to that tango 
high, without giving anything back. Some guys might 
call that a charity dance. I call it an illusion, 
or "one to tango". For me, it takes two.

Sean

P.S. Unfortunately, I didn't expect the protests, or
at least I wasn't prepared for how loud, long, and
viciously rabid they have been. Maybe that's why I'm
bitchin' on the 'L.

PATangoS - Pittsburgh Argentine Tango Society 
Our Mission: To make Argentine Tango Pittsburgh's most popular social dance. 
http://www.pitt.edu/~mcph/PATangoWeb.htm


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