[Tango-L] Back leading - Electra

[astrid]

> There are all sort of changes in traditional terminology to accommodate
the
> feelings of the "modern woman":
> Such as the man does not lead, no sir! - he invites, proposes, - and what
> are you going to do? : refuse to do whatever he is leading (excuse me
> inviting)? no you are going to follow and do it.
> Can you refuse? of course you can and then proceed to sit at your table.
Big
> deal.
>
(...)

> Any experimentation should be welcome. Everybody should do whatever
pleases
> him/her.
> And those that do not take part in those experimentations should be
tolerant
> and accept them as equal, because they might discover something.
Freedom is a good thing.
              Fanaticim, intolerance are bad things.


> PS. check the following page :)))
> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electra_complex
>

Alright, alright, Sergio, I will keep quiet about the incongruencies but
could you at least leave the kitchen psychology out of here? Next thing we
are going to have a discussion following regarding the hidden penis envy of
women who like to occasionally lead, and that will be the end of my
patience...

And as for this:...

"Would all the people here in the USA, especially the
self appointed Argentine Tango teachers, please stop
telling the Argentines how to dance Argentine tango.
They know how to dance the dance.  We do not.  We need
to learn, not teach.  We are wrong. The Argentines are
right.  Period.

Derik"

...Derik 's degree of bigotry is at least amusing.


Best regards
Astrid, trying to save Tango-L from turning into Tango-LOL... ; )