[Tango-L] 10-23-10 T Male / Female - Defining the different roles.

[Patricia Katz]

"That is; he sets the cadence the movements the vital feel of the dance. He
is also responsible for what comes next, this in itself can be a BIG job and
an intimidating one. This situation is a big reason why it should be the man
who decides when and with whom to dance."

He may decide with whom he wishes to dance, but it is the follower/woman who
actually makes the final decision. She may accept or  look away when he uses
the cabaceo or say "yes or no" when he asks her directly.

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