[Tango-L] Ecstasis and Control

[Keith]

Floyd,

I'm amazed that any regular reader of Tango-L could have missed 
the ... 'violin debate'. And, yes. it did seem endless. I don't recall
your website being mentioned but someone else did use the analogy 
of the woman being the 'violin'. I certainly don't want to restart that 
debate but I must tell use that it was almost unanimous that every 
woman (and most men) who replied HATED the analogy. You may 
want to rewrite that section of your website :-). For the debate, 
check the Archives.

Keith, HK


 On Sat Mar 29  9:51 , Floyd Baker  sent:

>As for the "seemingly decades long 'violin' debate"?   I didn't
>realize you were having one.  With who?  And one so 'strongly felt'?
>Especially since it's been less than 3 years since you got into Tango?
>I havn't heard of any such debate myself...
>
>Are you perchance referring to statements in my 'How to Tango'
>pages..?   Where I refer to the folower being 'a violin'..?    You
>don't state which side of the debate you're on.   I'd expect you would
>agree with me.., but you've surprised me before.  ;-)    Actually I
>don't know anyone who would disagree.    So I wonder where any
>'debate' would even come from.     
>
>I state it's the leader's job to (help) bring out the *beauty* of the
>follower during the dance.  There should be no disagreement (debate)
>there...  I use an analogy of a leader being a Maestro and the
>follower being the Strad.