[Tango-L] "Would you like to lead or follow?"

[Mario]

Thanks Sorin, I use that reason to exist (to feel like a man) because once a
  Tango-L member dismissed me in a private email by saying "you're just like them,
  you dance tango in order to 'feel like a man' " ..well, I've decided to embrace that
  as my own, too..
   Hey, I wake up and know that I'm a man, too!..Marvelous, isn't it? 
   No, you didn't 'put me in my place'
  .that can't happen to me on Tango L.