[Tango-L] Foxtrot to Tango, how do I do it?

[Astrid]

 And when I find followers that are demanding, I see how
> much I suck. Because they are used to good leaders. And I see how my
> technique is still lacking. After crying, I practice more :-)
...
> ps 3: are you going to a milonga? I wouldn't nag people at a milonga
> about your technique.. it's a social event, not a practica
>
Point is, "followers" (who are in fact, women, actually)  esp. the better 
dancers among them, can't be bothered to tell someone how much he really 
sucks, at a milonga. Esp. if he really, really sucks. They will try to run 
from him with a polite:"You are doing fine. Byeee...."