[Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads

[Jay Rabe]

My personal approach is "don't feed the trolls." That is, don't respond, and I frankly haven't opened an email from Keith UK in weeks.

            J



> From: felixydelgado at hotmail.com
> To: tango-l at mit.edu
> Date: Sun, 14 Oct 2007 01:56:30 +0000
> Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads
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> > From: keith at tangohk.com> To: tango-l at mit.edu> Date: Sat, 13 Oct 2007 21:19:19 -0400> Subject: Re: [Tango-L] Ocho queens-bad leads-good leads> > Hey Steve,> > If you can't answer the question, just say so. You sound like yet another guy> who likes to talk-the-talk but can't walk-the-walk. Tango is full of them' > > And thanks for reminding me what I wrote to Jeff - same thing hold for you Steve.> > A Tango Man's motto should be - NEVER BLAME THE WOMAN. > > Keith, HK
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>  > On Sun Oct 14 7:33 , steve pastor sent:> > >Keith: > > If you seriously wish to engage in discussions with people in this> > forum, you might want to avoid replies such as this one, which you > > posted recently.> > > > "Of course, Jeff, I'm sure the reason couldn't possibly be your poor leading.> >Personally, I've never had a woman ... "automatically resolve into an ocho".> >If you want something different, Jeff, lead something different. And if you> >can't - don't blame the woman. > >> >Keith, HK"> >> > > >> >> >Keith keith at tangohk.com> wrote:> > Can we be a little bit more specific here. Steve, if the girl can walk and> >do Ochos and Giros, just what are you leading that they don't know what to > >do? Especially after a couple of attempts. > >> >Keith, HK> >> >On Sat Oct 13 5:28 , steve pastor sent:> >> >> > >> "Why aren't they becoming more skilled?" Another answer to this is that> >> many women become visibly upset if you lead something and they don't> >> know what t!
>  o do. After a try or two, it's best to leave it alone.> >> And, you know, mostly, the women don't ask for input, or even want to > >> discuss things after they've had lessons or found an adequate number> >> of partners they feel comfortable with. If something doesn't work, it is> >> surely the fact that the man didn't lead it well. Right?> >> But then, maybe that is because we don't have men who have been doing> >> this for decades. > >> If you want to learn, you take lessons from a "teacher". Right?> >> > >> >> >_______________________________________________> >Tango-L mailing list> >Tango-L at mit.edu> >http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l> >> >> > > >---------------------------------> >Catch up on fall's hot new shows on Yahoo! TV. Watch previews, get listings, and more!> >_______________________________________________> >Tango-L mailing list> >Tango-L at mit.edu> >http://mailman.mit.edu/mailman/listinfo/tango-l> > > > _______________________________________________!
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