[Tango-L] Leading and following

[Tom Stermitz]

Yes, women can also be transparent to the leader, but the leaders  
attention has a lot more external information and noise.

Really good dancers have extraordinary skills at proprioception and  
kinesthetics.

More than that, their senses and awareness extends into the other  
person's body, as if both nervous systems were joined together. They  
feel energy and how it flows in another person's body.


On Jul 3, 2006, at 7:38 AM, astrid wrote:

> I'm not sure the leaders realize how transparent they are to the
> follower. Because she has x-ray vision into his heart, she can read
> every hesitation, all his tells, his gathering energy for a move, his
> bobbles, the quality of his embrace, etc...
> ...
> So, Tom, are women not as transparent to the men embracing them in  
> tango?
>
>> A good follower has the ability change his mind without him even
>> realizing it.
>>
> If only real life was as easy as that.
>
> Astrid,
> a better and more willing follower when on the dance floor...
>
>